Tuesday, April 29, 2014

A follow up on those 501 c 3's


An introduction follows the 77 families and me,

 

Entitlements, verse the realities of the needy….

 

I would like to discuss a friend of mine, for his protections I shall call him Sir Robert of Boisenshire, a younger man than I, a man of short yet wide stature, clean cut in display, kind if you really understand the word. His life has been an abuse after abuse under the guise of helping. He suffers from a issue, today would be called Adhd, an inability to set for a length of time, causing issue like lack of education, lack of self worth, and the view that today he needs medications to point were even the simplest of things like budgeting a months worth of food or money to provide for himself, as a solution to his shaking legs and his wondering mind as he looks out a window at a bird whose movement caught his eye, needs to be controlled and stopped by huge amounts of drugs given by a doctors to stop those behaviors.

 

Eight months and daily standing in the smoking section as he for the first time in his 38 years he attempts to care for himself, lives in a  housing development where a non- profit helps those who are in need.

 

A bit of background on this non profit, they employ another non-profit to manage the housing development. The managing non profit, has yet to pass the inspections by the state on even the simplest of maintenance issues, like the safety of the play ground, the grounds up keep, the cleaning or the common areas. They have this practice of employing friends of the non-profit and housing them within the community, if not direct families of the managing non-profit, while paying them top dollar to provide maintenance of the community.

 

Back to that smoking section and the mess of all those cigarette buts that seems never to get placed in the trash can, a rake and an intro to do something for another, a simple thing of picking up after another. This is where Sir Robert and I first met, me a smoker raking up after a few others, you see Sir Robert wants to help; he wants to feel needed by someone for something, a value of self worth. In our interactions he one day asked if he could do what I was doing, simply cleaning up, after a great laugh with each other, the rake became his, in his efforts of what now is a daily volunteer-ment of his time and efforts, that smoking section as grown to a walk around the complete complex, and simply picking up trash left by others.

 

Nepotism, defined as favoritism granted in politics or business to relatives. The maintenance of the grounds and payment of that work, job functions plus an exchange on top of wages for a larger three or four bedroom apartment, given to a mangers spouse. A simple confrontation by Sir Robert to this maintenance employee, about actually doing the job of cleaning and picking up after others, as small as the issue seems to be, keeping the grounds presentable to the outside world. Has lead Sir Robert into a firestorm of actuations and dismissals.

 

Obviously if the spouse of a manger will not pickup the grounds there are other issues he would never do, one on top of the other and the clear understanding he was not fit to actually do the job of maintenance. The choice to keep him employed was limited, then it was no longer an option.

 

Back to that simple confrontation, the results of that confrontation and Sir Robert. This managing spouse has taken the time and efforts to regain their precious selfish view of better than the community by dry actuations against Sir Robert, stating and calling their friends to investigate Sir Robert for illegal drugs, specifically marihuana. Stating that they are so sure that Sir Robert has to be on illegal drugs to have the courage not only to help pick up after others, but to do the job of the spouses functions without a single dime of payment.

 

Corruptions and Nepotism, and fear that this man who just wanted to help, to do something for others, has cost him not only the self worth of achievements, like weight loss, but the development of friends within the community.

 

Lets go back to those little extra gifts of not only the wages but the apartments, their apartment is different than Sir Roberts, they have special locks, peeks holes, counters, fixtures, within the community, they live better than Sir Robert.

 

If you were to ever meet Sir Robert and spend anytime with him you would clearly see that there is no illegal drug issue, yet because of a simple confrontation he will be labeled as such by the managing non-profit.

 

This is the realities of your tax dollars, which are to be given to the needy to assist them in becoming a functioning member of our communities, given first to one, then to another to manage, under Nepotism.

 

As for me all I did is give the man a rake, and permission to help another, which he did at the cost of his own self worth and peace of mind, for now he will be under constant view for illegal drugs, constant inspections of his apartment as they look for the proof of something that just is not there.

 

All of this is done under the view that it is a entitlement for someone like Sir Robert to ask for help, where he found a way to help others.

 

Nepotism is clearly seen on those locks and with those peek holes before you even knock upon the door.

 

 

Chas

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